Question by Steve: drug+girl help ! . . . . . . .?
hey there, im in a little situation, maybe about last year i used to hang about with a group of friends, we used to take coke and smoke alot of weed, maybe every week end, but i stopped hanging about with them because i felt slightly addicted to the coke. maybe about 4 weeks ago i started hanging around with them again, i started coke again, my addiction is coming back again. but this time, i met a group of girls that they hang about with, but one of them is perfect, and i dont want her to get sucked into the drug scene like me and the rest of her friends, she is amazing, we have so much in common, she is mellow, she is a musician, but she hates drugs. she doesnt know about me and the cocain, so ive stopped doing it, today i was with my group of friends in his living room and they were all snorting the coke and i had a huge craving but, i diddnt want to ditch this girl for drugs, i stayed with her and we talked for hours, i got her number and she thinks im a great guy and im hot.

heres the hard part, she hangs about with the drug addicted friends, and she wants me to be with her all the time, but i have cravings for coke as soon as it is in sight, should i hang about with this girl? i really love her, but she is making it hard for me to quit when she is distracting me with it, if i tell her ive even taken drugs, she would go bat shit at me.

(please do not answer with “drugs are bad you asshole” or “seek help for drug addiction” i know the lectures and ive stopped the coke all together now)

thank you 🙂

Best answer:

Answer by Dbarrusr
Simple, suggest her to seek a different group of friends, it is notable that she does not like drugs, give her the lectures you talked about before and that you just want to stay the farthest from any kind of drug*.
-If you feel like you should spend one or more weekends with the gang do what you have kept doing, take her from the group and go talk and stuff, there’s good chemistry isn’t it?
-If the girl has an annoying dependence on her junkie friends, get her on a one-on-one date(s), dude, she must really like you, take some initiative.
*Be real preferably, sincerity towards your druggy past could get her to understand.
Ps: Try your best not fall in love, it sucks.

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