A 25 Yrs Old Engineer Married to a 42 Yr Old Electrician?He Was Fantastic and Even Helped Support in College?

Question by veronica: A 25 yrs old engineer married to a 42 yr old electrician?He was fantastic and even helped support in college?
funds.As soon as wife gets a job,husband starts to handle money badly.He makes comments like “my friend’s wife also has a good job so doesnot really have to work”.He always reminds wife about how he helped in paying for college and train pass.He feels since wife is younger,does not know as much as him in terms of job experiences.I think it’s ok for husband and wife to lean on each other…but what’s wrong in wanting an ambitious and hardworking husband and why the sudden change?Also husband feels wife should pay for wedding and gives very little contribution.He’s hesistant about having kids and is angry all the time.Wife moves four hours away due to job and lives seperately to make income.She has her own bills and rent but spouses feels wife should take care of some of his bills and is frustrated with wife.Husband becomes boss of a new project as the general foreman.He works overtime but still has no saving,continually overdrafts and is constantly angry with wife.Explains to wife that behavior is due to job and that he loves wife.But he ignores wife and does not want to talk on phone with wife.He begins to eat a lot,smoke a lot and does not listen to wife until wife pays some of his bills.Is marriage headed for downfall?

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Answer by Ozone6969
yes. get counciling or leave.

Answer by Fred W
definitely

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